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Sunday, September 2, 2018

September 02, 2018

Infinity:you will be crying if you understand





My name is something & I am the owner of this that & various other things. What it means? You have accumulated a lot of stuff around the identity, the society once offered you. If you ever close your eyes to think who you are in this endless cosmos, you will be laughing at yourself. Your comparative social existence overwhelms your real self. Without understanding anything we are prompted to earn a living. If it was just about a living it would have been alright but you yearn for endless. Basically you want to see yourself at the top owning everything & bossing over others. But it is true that even if you go that far your desire will not be fulfilled. Your intellectual ability to differentiate you & the other stimulates you to move ahead of the rest. You take ‘the amount of money’ to be the determinant of success because people before you have already walked on that path. But if you are confused about yourself & don’t realize the true reason of living here on that physical wealth ridden path, you should take the trouble of going a bit deeper.
                                                                                                                Though you might have the knowledge of every technological happening in the world made by human being, yet you are ignorant about the nature of your own existence. You keep yourself busy gathering billions and die in the process without any consciousness. Whatever is going on today by the process of evolution is undoubtedly fantastic. This generation is probably having the most physical comfort ever. But we can’t say that we are the happier than our ancestors. Problems kept growing with accessories around us. The phenomena happen to us must leave us in wonder. Life seems to go around in a pattern for everyone. We always feel something to be happening without our own intention. Why is so! We believe some philosophy or ideology without making an attempt to know the reality behind it. It always surprised me that people dive into so many complexities in their life for materials but do not make even an halfhearted attempt to know the fundamental reality.
                                                                                                                                Definite is the physical existence & infinite is the cosmos. So many theories we have read regarding energy being inexhaustible without understanding to its core. We say something is destroyed but in reality nothing happens like that. The infinite cosmos holds it. Everything exists within that nothing is beyond. Planets, galaxies sometimes mesmerized us but there is endless non physical which is darkness does not bother us that much because our limited potential to see only those things which prevents light. With this limitation we begin to feel the existence to be anthropocentric which is quite nonsensical. Light is the hallucination, darkness is the truth.
                                                                                I often come across this question that why we should know the real self? Is it necessary? I would not say that it is mandatory but if you feel that your life is something more than what you think then we must know it fully. We often use the word ‘fortune’ or ‘luck’ without knowing it. But is it not normal to know what makes someone else luckier than you? Just believing will give you a comfortable sleep but your life will be more enigmatic. You being the owner of the world for a limited period of time are way lesser than having the perception of life itself. Once you know life you will automatically know the mystery of birth, death. If you become free from the dark shadow of this cycle then you will be living like no one else. I think the great yogis like Gautam Budhha, Ramakrishna paramhansa  were not fool . If knowing life is that nonsensical then they would not have invested their whole life behind a vacant idea in spite of having all the luxuries in the world available to them. We are in a state of mind where we think ourselves to be the perfect and the rest is utter nonsense. Where our logic does not work, we tend to make a fun of those being ignorant of the limited possibility of logical mind. We should take into consideration everything .We have already paid a lot of attention to improve the external affairs & we are succeeded in a great way & it is time to focus on the inner self to explore the limitless possibility that it holds. Hope someday our life finds a new dimension of existence which is boundless and infinite.

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Friday, August 31, 2018

August 31, 2018

WAYS TO GET OVER A BREAK UP


If you belong to the age group of 30+ and  still not playing the role of a parent then it may seem to be useless but if you just hit the puberty or a parent of an offspring of that age group then you should take the trouble of going through till the end.

                                                           The reason why you feel disappointed and become depressed after a break up is your lack of vision to see life the way it is.But it would be a bit harsh to expect an immature fellow to be spot on all the time in every phase of his journey. Mistakes are to be committed to experience life fully. If you restrain yourself from doing things you like because of having the fear of failure, then you will end up living a constipated life. It is way better to commit mistakes & learn from it. Here are some fundamental factors that make you commit so and suffer the consequences:
  • I know people say that immediate involvement in another relationship after a break up is the most comprehensive and shortest way to come out of it but it is not applicable to everyone. Even if you submit the application to fall in again,there is least chance of you being successful this time around.Everything you do in life needs certain amount of attention to become prosperous.There is always a high percentage of possibility of you being failed again due to lack of intensified attention.There will be an exchange of sweet emotion in between a couple. If someone finds his/her partner to be less responsive than himself/herself,then the possibility of the relationship moving forward is less.When you still have the hangover of the previous one,you reciprocate less and that is where your skill of using someone else as a tool to forget the other fails.

  •  So,it is better that you find out the reason of your failure first.Falling in love with other is an hormonal hijack.If you look at the fundamental process of life you will  see that the development of your physical body both inside and outside makes you realize various aspects of your existence.The predominant of those is the attraction for the opposite sex.We know that something we experience for the first time in our life draws our best attention and it turns out to be indelible.The human mechanism is made up in that way and here lies the chemistry of so called 1st love being so important and unforgettable.
         
  •  Our likes and dislikes depend on our own experience of life.If tomorrow morning you find extreme goodness in someone,you tend to fall in love with him/her but in the very next moment if the reverse happens you feel remorse for your decision.This takes place because our lack of perspective.We exchange love just because we have memory.If  someone wipes off your memory everything will be blank for you even love which you are so much fond of but life exists.The exaggerated relationship we establish in between love and live is quite bizarre.Love is just a sweetness of your emotion which you exchange with others,happens within yourself.

IN CASE YOU BROKE UP IN SPITE OF PUTTING THE BEST OF YOUR COMMITMENT,you can follow this tips to overcome it:
  1. Beat the hell out of your liking or fondness of her face by visiting his social networking profile every now and then or never.
  2. Find out your true self. Identify those things which you have interest on and work on it
  3. Remind yourself that in life,there are a few happenings which are beyond your control such as birth,death,the circumstance we face and the people we come across.
  4. Perpetual is nothing.If today something seems to be everything,tomorrows it may turn out to be absolutely nothing.
  5. From now on,try to accept people just the way they are.No one in this existence is perfect.
  6. Be conscious of your mortality. It will enhance the attachment within in a relationship.If you are aware of it, then you will not waste any time doing nonsensical stuff.
                                  Hope you find it useful.
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Tuesday, August 28, 2018

August 28, 2018

INSIGHT TO SUICIDE



                                               INSIGHT TO SUICIDE




Most of us have had faced the situation of utter stagnation in any point of our life where there seemed to be no way out. Then suddenly a crawling thought came to our mind to put an end in this vexing ongoing drama of life .Yes, truly it is the most qualified escaping formula without having longtime trouble only when you successfully commit it. But to what extent it is justified! Famous personalities have told you that "it is our duty to live as long as we can". So, there must be something to consider.  First of all let us understand what makes us commit so? In a single word It is just because of social identification. A beggar who does not have any social identity never commit suicide rather dies out of starvation. In spite of not having a meal per day he/she tries to survive. So our social identification and ego are the culprits behind it. Only when the familiar surroundings become unbearable we embrace the dark corridor of uncertainty .i.e death. There is another aspect to be considered .Maturity by age or experience counts here a lot. If you have spent a lot of time here you will understand how life can treat you. It can be worst at times but it is your patience, tolerance and resilience that prevent you from concluding the process. It is our own nervous system that is also tested in every situation we face in our life.

                                                          But people of age group 10-20 seem to get trapped in difficult situation because their lack of perspective. They seem to be stuck in a situation which they are not able to tackle. It is a fact that when we face adversities in our life, looking beyond becomes very challenging. The ongoing troublesome circumstance seems to be the perpetual stumbling block for us. People who have insight into life and know the transience of happenings, overcome everything whatever they confront. Your life is great if you are successful but it is a grave if you have never failed. Life is beautiful just because there is variety. You being failure time and again are just an added flavor to thy life. We commit suicide just because we get disappointment in certain aspects forgetting the beauty that life offered to us some times ago & by doing so we try to escape. The diversity of events should enchant us neglecting the negativity it carries.
                                                                  

                                                        Our expectation of life became idealistic where everything should run smoothly without any obstacle, gets whipped over and over again. Idealism is not a genuine idea. I dare say that ‘idealism’ does not exist at all.
If today something works for you in a given situation, tomorrow morning all of a sudden that may not work. If you label it to be idealistic today, it may cause you a lot of suffering tomorrow. So a conscious approach is needed. Above all you should have the clarity of accepting life the way it is. The situations you face in your life are definitely not in your control but how you respond to those is an explicit responsibility of yourself.  As elders we must be responsible enough not to create any situation where our future generation may suffocate which can lead to their self destruction.
We must provide them an enjoyable and living atmosphere where they will be able to keep their hope alive no matter how difficult a situation becomes. If we ourselves exist in tune with the existence no more self generated mishaps will take place.
Suicide stands against Hope. If you can't see hope you tend to visit the other one. So keep your hope alive, who knows! Some day   so called 'fortune' might end up enlightening your sphere of life.


HOPE




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Thursday, August 23, 2018

MARRIAGE
August 23, 2018

MARRIAGE


THE TRUTH BEHIND MARRIAGE

   A youth who is yet to get the relishing of that heavenly pleasure namely marriage loiters by keeping his/her heart wide open but someone who is already married seems to regret the obsession he/she shown earlier in life for marriage. Marriage, as we all know is a union between two. By this process one tries to include the other as a part of himself/herself. Our intrinsic nature is such that we all want to have variety in our life to that extent where we won't mind to change the complexion of our body frequently by applying plastic surgery or some other means. So, how could we maintain the same magnetism to someone else throughout our life! We have the fascination to see everything redesigned. This is where marriage which once seemed to be the forbidden fruit, in hindsight gradually turns out to be a mirage.

                                                                 But marriage is not something to be condemned. It is the ultimate unification where both participants play a role of the creator. There are various other aspects which are related to it. Yes, it is a responsibility which most of us don't like at all to be continued throughout. We can bear the burden of occasional responsibility by displaying sheer heroism. But the concerned matter is a bit different. It is even a challenge for those who are not captivated by the glimpse of his spouse's countenance day in & day out. On the contrary, having the marital bliss if someone is bewitched by body & soul, that life is worth cherishing.

                                                                    Let’s see why we people tend to get married? I guess society, to have the physical accessory or leaving the footprint behind to be the reason! It's true that we get married out of compulsion, I meant to say without having any thought about it. The possibility of a compulsive act's fructification is indefinite. This is why people tend to shun the substantiality of marriage. If a person involves in such companionship, he must have the clarity about the consequences because this is not a frolicking activity.

                                                                    If you are conscious about every individual being unique in its own way, then major conflict will not take place. The problem is I want the opposite to be the same way as I am which is next to impossible. Diversity is the excellence of this existence. It is undeniable. So, it is better that we learn to accept everything just the way they are. Everything involves certain amount of emotion which is the origin of contradiction. The aspiration of human being to happen everything the way they like acts as a root cause of every friction. It is not always about adjustment because adaptation without having exhilarating intention does not turn out to be productive. The foremost necessity is to have a clear cut view of life itself. If someone is conscious about mortality then he will not invest any time at all to win a quarrel over other instead he will embrace the opposite regardless of any kind that she is. The charisma will be such where a second’s separation in a relation makes them feel like millenniums.


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Addiction: A story of a Lost Life.
August 23, 2018

Addiction: A story of a Lost Life.


                      Addiction: A  story of a Lost Life



A life which seems to be carried forward with his past life obligation is to suffer the immense brutality of a mortified society. Being a son of a poor farmer who is an alcoholic, he did not have any earthly possession to get enchanted. On the contrary he got a mother who is probably to suffer a million lifetimes' karma. She would probably be one of the most resilient women the earth has ever produced. Addiction brings disaster .In spite of having two non-profligate children and a wife the father could not restrain himself from walking on the path of destruction in the form of alcoholic addiction. Everything he had, but sustainable was nothing. Out of sheer frustration, he begins to torture his wife and children. In a certain night when the clock was about to visit the position, where it starts from, a thunderstorm outstretched its nefarious arm to assault the goddess-like spouse and throws out little kid's books outside the window for no reason other than the inebriating effect on him. This was the most horrific night where the little kid saw his brutal father was beating his compassionate and kind-hearted mother by grasping her hair which delineates the medieval brutality where the masters abused their slaves immensely.

                                                                In the next morning everything became fit and fine when the hangover of the father was over. In spite of having all these imperfections he had some noble qualities .He used to be a generous figure among the people who associated him. The father had a strong inclination to see his son well established in the society even though he had utmost poverty. Therefore at a very early age the son was sent to a hostel for his educational betterment. The fact that he had a poor father & didn't have any significant earthly possession, was imprinted in his head. This led his downfall and in that way he entered into the dark corridor of depression. Although he was quite conscientious and talent, he was unable to perform well enough in the latter half of his academic career. He was unable to come out of the trauma he had in his childhood.

                                                                 Because of hormonal hijack he too fallen in love but could not succeed. She promised him to stay by his side throughout but it was one of those promises which were made to be broken. But this guy did not claim his love. He gave her the luxury to leave him at any point of his life with just an immediate notice and she did the same. He was very unlikely to befit the modern day & age. He thought on number of occasions to rejuvenate & tried his level best with all the complexities he had but he could not. His weakness became stronger than his strength.
Social dignity, identification all seemed to be total garbage to him. He wanted to draw himself in the world of oblivion. When he looked back nothing seemed to work the way he wanted. Then he decided to put an end on this endless suffering. He perished with ease to find a new beginning.


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